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How Christmas preparations going!!!!
I can smell chicken already 😁
Its gonna be a detty December 😂😂😚
As much as you prepare to receive do not forget to GIVE too.
So for today 😋
Ever since i was a child, i’d always wanted to be a doctor.
You know the lab coat,gloves,respect,the mad ass dressing,the rush,the emergency,being a light of hope,the every cool thing we see on TV that makes that profession look classy😚
All that stuff i wanted it.
To feel it,to be it.
But who was i kidding😂😂.
To be that sophisticated ass lady swaying in a lab coat,i needed brains.
Well its not like a don’t have oo…of course i do😋.. i have the brains of the brains.
But being a doctor needed the brains of the brains of brains.
Ise ni ooo(it’s hardwork)
If i kept on going at that rate the only doctor i’d become is a quack doctor 😁
Low and Behold ooooo
I became a doctor a quack one at that……fortunately for me its not the doctor that stops a child or a human from dieing….
I present to you Sandra,the love doctor!!
A few years back, i created a site called “The love doctor”.
Nobody knew who i was(I’m only telling you cos the site is down😂),i never knew who anybody was.
All i knew was about the problems and all they ever heard was a solution and advice.
Everything was in written form.
You’d ask,Haha what did this one know about relationships at that her age,well what people don’t understand is sometimes all the heart needs to heal or restrategize is another voice of reasoning outside and that’s what i was.
The love doctor.
You might also ask😂😂,what did a single person know.
Well at that time i was singleeeeee.
Single to stupor and honestly it didn’t bother me.
I was fine.
But i was crushing 😂😂
But have you ever reaslised why single people most times have the best advices to people in relationships??
Its because,at that moment they are the see all.
Their eyes are just as sharp as the eagles picking up a fast movement and like a dogs instict they perceive foulness.
It’s not like im reffering to them as animals oo😂😂bottom line is,At that point in time,they have nothing to cloud their eyes or minds and that’s makes them give good advice(i was gonna use all this super hero word but pfttttt….nothing came)
During the time this site went on…i realised one very important thing.
Any toxic relationship is a NO GO area no matter how you feel.
Didn’t mama ever tell you to be wary of bad boys?
They’re like the devil,
Giving you temporary happiness and take everything else,including your sanity.
Didn’t mama ever warn you about boys with issues?
Why try to mend what’s been irreparably broken
Do you think life is like wattpad stories??
Where the toxic person changes because of your love??
Face it people this is REAL LIFE.
Why spend time loosing yourself and happiness to a toxic person all in the name of love!
3am one weekday morning,i woke up to ease myself.
I went to scroll the verse of social media when i recieved a notification from The Love Doctor site.
My name is Sare(well actually not)I’m 20,pregnant and i think i might commit suicide.
You might ask why??
It’s a long story and i hope you really do read this till the end.
I was 17,happy and in love with the mosyt handsome guy I’d ever met🙈
We started hanging out, and those first 4 months were the most beautiful moments of my life.
I found love and it was just perfect.
After the 4th month he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said yesss!!!
I mean how could i say No.
A man on his knees in front of my whole faculty,flowers and a group of people on standby to capture the moment.
It was like my highschool fairytale had happened and i had just ticked one thing of my bucket list😉
2 months into or relationship,i reaslised he started changing attitudes,constant snapping and nagging, no wink or even a smile
I took it all as stress and i thought maybe i was indeed over bearing since i didn’t know how relationships worked.
I was bent on doing anything and everything just to make him happy.
And that’s how my life began to crumble.
He started complaing that i was cheating,being too free with people,going out too much and he didn’t trust me.
I was stupid to think it was just a one day jealous overprotective boyfriend show and it would be over soon until it became a constant topic of discussion.
After a heated arguement he begged me to please move on with him and that then he was gonna be sure i was safe and with him.
Gleefully i moved in with my boyfriend and we became the “married couple” on campus😂
Everybody swooned at us,people wanted to be us if only they knew.
Most nights,it was slaps that ended with begs and kisses.
Beatings that got me a new designer bag or dress
For some reason everytime i wanted to quit,his begging would make me give in one more time.
“This is the last time i swear,i love you,i donno know what came over me.Babe i promise you,”he would say and hand me a a gift to seal my lips.
The beatings became constant,that we graduated.
I didn’t hangout with friend’s anymore.
My social media accounts he knew the passwords so i went off socially.
I hardly went home cos most times my marks would be visible.
My bubbly side died and i became a cat that hid in a snails shell.
It was the hardest 3 years of my life.
But what i kept telling myself was that i loved him and i was gonna make him change!
On my 19th Birthday,for the first time in a while,he let me meet up with my friends we talked and had fun.
As i entered the house i was met with a very hard slap across my face.
Pushed to the ground and then he stole my innocence.
But No!!!😭😭my stupid self still forgave him.
I still lived with him.
I had 3 abortions for him.
My life went down the drain.
Everyday,i got tired.
Tired of the pain,the beatings of the sadness.
I decided to move my life.
I transferred schools
Changed my social media accounts but still inactive.
Yesterday i slammed the door in his face and finally left.
I was free.
But doctor I’m to face my parents tommorow and now i find out I’m pregnant for him again!.
I donno doctor……
I read this with haste with tears falling down.
I needed to reply fast.
I was barely into a relationship and how was i even gonna reply this.
I prayed soo hard that i said something good.
Something that would make her forget suicide.
And for the first time i broke a love doctor site rule.
I replied her email with my number and i hoped she’d just call.
20 mins passed nothing.
I burst into tears.
She’s dead….i didn’t read soo fast.
I was stupid to send my number.
At exactly 5:43am a call came in and when i picked it.
I was met with a voice in tears.
What ever happened that night i donno
But it was indeed a miracle.
Suicide was off the list.
I can’t say all that happened to her but she’s now living my fairytale dream.
She’s the badass doctor with brains.
I’m sooo sorrry😭😭😭
I apologise for not being very consistent in this ride😢
I really love you all soo much for reading and almost killing me to update too😂😍
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