Hello there !!

It’s pretty funny how we all want a beautiful relationship but we’re not making efforts to keep one the way it is meant to be. Anyways, I’ve written below the most important things to do, if you’re ready for a serious relationship with someone.  I know that  after you read this, you’d have the courage to make life changing decisions. Enjoyyy !! 😊👇👇

 Firstly,  before you start something serious with someone you claim to love, make sure you PraCUT & the meaning of this is .👇

PraCUT is an acronym for the word :PrayerCommunicationUnderstanding&Trust!

Pra: (Pray)

Prayer helps to keep the relationship stronger! It is why you should seek God first before you find that one person you want to spend the rest of your life with & when you find the person, you both have to always help each other move closer to God. This is the key to a happy relationship!

C: Communication 

We’re all busy & we tend to get caught up with alot of things but then you should be able to communicate with your significant other. The word ‘busy’ is one hell of a shitty kind of excuse. It’s true that we are all busy but then you should be able to spare atleast 20 or 30minutes to communicate with them. Always try to create time out of no time to do so. Let them know what’s going on in your life because lack of communication leaves room for a lot of imaginations.

U: Understanding

In a relationship, y’all gotta understand the kind of person you are dealing with. We all know that nobody is perfect & in a relationship you have to understand that you both are two imperfect people trying to make a perfect relationship. Do not expect your significant other to be perfect! Instead, just accept and understand the kind of person he or she is to avoid misunderstandings. 

T: Trust

A relationship that is built on trust lasts way longer than you can imagine. It’s safe to say that you should never trust anyone but then you gotta trust your significant other to a fault. Some people are scared to say the truth at times because they feel it would end their relationship because of what they might have done. It’s way better to say the truth than for you to break the trust they have in you. This is one of the reasons why you should have an understanding partner because no matter how bad it may seem, they would understand and forgive you but then It  should also not be an excuse for you to take them for granted!. Anyways, here is a literal example of how trust looks like: Get a breakable plate, throw it on the floor! Now try to pack them together? I hope you know that It would never be the same and that’s exactly how it is when you’ve broken the trust people have in you. You can never fix it & the worse of it all is that they would begin to question everything you ever told them whether it’s the truth or not. So the best thing is to always say the truth.  So that they can always put their trust in you. 

At the end of the day, you don’t have to get stuck with someone who’s not willing to commit to all of this because you’re afraid of being ALONE! Being single won’t kill you & being in a relationship won’t heal but it’s beautiful to be in a relationship especially the one where y’all are willing to commit. Therefore, before you go into any relationship make you sure you ‘PraCUT’. 😊❤❤❤❤

 Sending love & light to your way,

                   Rafiat Madamidola 💌.

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